Many times a woman struggles to get into sex mode in her mind and if she doesn’t she will not experience as much pleasure as she should. A great way to get involved and force your mind onto sex is to watch his hands on your body and get visually involved. You will very quickly start to put the shopping list at the back of your mind and begin to have sexual thoughts.
You have been thinking sexually so now you are aroused and ready to proceed. Your clitoris is enlarging and your vagina is becoming moist. You will start giving off pheromones at this point, so if your husband isn’t aroused he soon will be. Too many people jump into sex at this point but if you really want to get the most out of your time with your husband make this stage last by enjoying a time of foreplay. Take time to touch each other, cuddle, speak to each other and really get fully aroused before moving onto sexual touch.
Foreplay allows both your vagina and his penis time to become fully enlarged. Enjoying non sexual touch is a great way of teasing each other into extreme arousal to ensure maximum pleasure. It is here that you will start to release all sort of hormones that could even make you fantasise about sexual activity with your husband. A man would do well to be patient and enjoy foreplay with his wife as she will be more willing to experiment and do exciting things if she is fully aroused.
Usually women reach orgasm by manual stimulation before her husband enters her with his penis. Occasionally a man is able to bring his wife to orgasm with his penis but this is unlikely to happen for newlyweds as you really need to get to know each other’s bodies well. Having an orgasm is a wonderful experience for both the husband and wife which release endorphins amongst many other hormones. It has been proven scientifically that there are several health benefits to an orgasm including longevity.